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Michigan Youth (MY) Consent Month

An annual event highlighting the need for consent education in MI

What is MY Consent Month?
Michigan Youth (MY) Consent Day is an initiative launched in 2014 to aid young people in understanding the difference between consent and non-consent. MY Consent Day is observed on the fourth Friday in September each year. Its primary goal is to provide youth with resources to empower themselves to know their rights, communicate about consent, and engage in healthy relationships. Recently the event has been extended into a full month of awareness activities, making September MY Consent Month!  Check out the 2021 Governor's Proclamation recognizing September as Consent Month.

For more on MOASH's year-round work, visit our MY Consent Culture project webpage and resources page!

Michigan Youth (MY) Consent Month 2021 events:

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Social norms campaign on Instagram
  • This past year we conducted a statewide Youth Sexual Violence Social Norms survey, asking young people about their attitudes toward dating behaviors, gender roles, seeking support, consent education, and more.  We are excited to start sharing our findings via data infographics developed in collaboration with MPHI and our MY GAB youth advisory council members! Follow the @empowering.miyouth Instagram page to see our new data releases throughout the month!
First looks at a new resource: K-5 Consent Toolkit
  • Over the past two years, the Sexual Violence Prevention (SVP) resources workgroup (part of the MY Consent Culture project) has been developing a consent toolkit for educators and parents/caregivers with students in grades K-5. Stay tuned for the September release of a short video module which will walk through the first draft of the resource!

  • Consent Basics
  • Past MYCD Resources
  • Curriculum
  • Videos/Graphics
  • Policy
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What is consent?
Consent is an informed, voluntary, and mutual decision among all participants to engage in any activity, including sexual activity.  Consent must create clear permission and willingness to participate.  All people in a sexual situation must feel that they are able to say "yes" or "no" or stop the sexual activity at any point.

Who should ask for consent?
The person who is initiating or escalating the level of activity (for example, moving onto a sexual act not yet agreed upon) is responsible for asking for consent and respecting whether consent is given or denied.  All parties involved in a sexual situation should frequently "check-in" during sexual activities.

Why ask for consent?
Consent shows respect to your partner(s)'s body, their autonomy, and their pleasure. Consent ensures that you and your partner(s) are on the same page and communicate your needs and boundaries. Sex without consent is sexual violence. 

Consent is... enthusiastic, verbal and nonverbal, voluntary, sober, ongoing, mutual, physical, emotional, reversible

Consent is NOT... assumed, implied, coerced, the absence of "no," silence, compliance, manipulation, intimidation
2018:
  • Official 2018 MYCD toolkit (PDF)
  • MYCD Youth Voice Panel Webinar (Video)
  • MYCD photo campaign printables (PDFs)
  • Official MYCD House Adopted Resolution 

2017:
  • Official 2017 MYCD toolkit (PDF)
  • MYCD Consent Catch-all Webinar (Video)
  • Official MYCD House Adopted Resolution
Many sex education curriculums may include lessons about consent; however, many are not free or available to the public.  Here are a few lesson plan options on consent that are free and accessible online:
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  • 3Rs curriculum, Advocates for Youth (K-12 lesson plans)
  • Consent Campaign Guidebook, Vermont Network (lesson plans for grades 7-10)
  • Consent is...: a toolkit, Wisconsin (lesson plans for middle/high school)
  • Using Consent Videos to Model Respect and Communication, Planned Parenthood (lesson plan for grades 11-12)
  • A Short History of the Long Fight against Sexual Harassment, KQED (lesson plan for high school and beyond)
Videos and visuals can be a great teaching tool around consent.  We've compiled a list of a few videos used to teach about consent and broken them up by suggested grade level; however, we recognize that students may be at different levels of learning/understanding, and so we encourage you to view them prior to sharing and make the determination about what will work best for your students:

For elementary school:
  • Consent for Kids (video)
  • Boss of My Body (video)
For middle/high school:
  • What is consent? (video)
  • Consent: It's Simple as Tea (video)
  • Ask. Listen. Respect: A Video about Consent (video and discussion guide)
  • Consent and Communication (video)
  • Saying Yes or No: What is consent? (video)
  • Consent Explained (video)
  • 2 Minutes Will Change the Way You Think About Consent (video)
For high school and older:
  • How Do You Know if Someone Wants to Have Sex with You? (video)
  • Wanna have sex? (Consent 101) (video)
  • Not On My Watch: A Bystander Handbook for the Prevention of Sexual Violence (comic e-book)
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If you would like to know more about current advocacy efforts and policy considerations around consent (beyond those listed on the MOASH resource page and MOASH advocacy page), check out the following:
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  • Know Your IX: Empowering Students to Stop Sexual Violence
  • Definition of Affirmative Consent, State University of New York
MORE RELATED TO MY CONSENT DAY:
  • List of MOASH programs related to consent and gender-based discrimination
  • MOASH program area overview: Consent and Gender-Based Discrimination
  • MOASH's policy position: "Affirmative Consent"
  • Consent and Gender-Based Discrimination resource page

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